How Young is Too Young to Begin?

How old is too old?

Piano lessons can begin at any age, but there must be an optimal age, yes?

There are more than a few schools of thought on this issue. The Suzuki Method encourages very young children who can barely hold a crayon to begin instruction. An opposite view is held by the Waldorf Method: Children begin piano instruction as late as age 11. There are many valid reasons for these two very different approaches to piano instruction. It is widely held, however, that instruction plays an important role in being able to play the piano.

If you are considering piano lessons for your child, take a few moments to honestly answer these questions:

  • Does he sit and focus for 25 to 30 minutes?
  • Can he recognize the letters of the alphabet?
  • Does he take criticism with a grain of salt?

If you can answer “yes” when thinking about your three year old, then you know that he is ready for piano lessons. Because piano instruction involves stopping a child’s work and correcting it, he ought to be able to emotionally handle what one may feel is an insult. If you think that your five year old does not fit the criteria, wait a three or six months. It only takes a little bit of time to develop the maturity required for piano lessons.

On the other side of the spectrum, many adult students who have never had a music lesson or claim to be tone deaf, have learned to play piano fairly quickly.

Remember that learning a musical instrument depends not only on the intelligence and temper of the student but on the support that he receives at home from his siblings and parents. A competent, agreeable ten year old who has no place to practice will not progress if he only plays piano during his lesson. By not making time to sit to listen to their child to give them a little concert, parents take the risk of losing their child’s interest in piano.

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Proper Wrist Alignment for Children When Playing the Piano

I have always enjoyed running. When I was younger (before parenthood), I really liked sprinting. My favorite sport was and still is association football (soccer). As a defender, I sprinted a lot. I helped to defend the goal and made all the throw-ins and took all the corners.

And now, in my 40s, I still run – perhaps 20 miles a week, but I haven’t sprinted in ages. Fortunately, my joints are still in good shape as I never liked to feel strain and never played through an injury.

Just like in sports, a young musician may suffer an injury if the form is incorrect.

Piano teachers don’t repeat, “Sit up,” or “Straighten your wrists,” because they enjoy it. They do it so that the students don’t suffer an injury.

Tension and compression may result in carpal tunnel syndrome or tendinitis. The tiny muscles, ligaments, and joints can heal when used properly. If overused in a small amount of time (say, practicing for one hour after a week of no practice) or poorly used over a long time (as in poor form), then the joints and surrounding systems won’t heal correctly.

This causes pain and can eventually lead to serious injuries. Keeping the wrist straight, not curved upward nor sagging, takes a bit of getting used to, but it’s not painful and not tiresome.

I don’t want to scare you, but I don’t want to gloss over it, either.

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, and it’s easier to prevent an injury by doing things right. There shouldn’t be discomfort when using correct posture.

A good way to check that wrists are straight is by running your finger under your child’s wrists.

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Musical Hashtags and Eyebrows

I think it’s so cute when children point to a symbol in music and ask,
“What’s that hashtag (or smiley face, eyebrow, &c) ? “
Some of the symbols in music really do look like eyebrows, headphones, half-hearts, and other objects.

Learning to read notes isn’t the most important skill in music. It’s usually what is first taught as the notes are certainly an important factor. The symbols are what give the notes their personality.

Think of them like the different herbs in cooking. You wouldn’t put rosemary in a taco unless you ‘re going for a Thanksgiving taco theme. Would you serve tacos without cilantro? Maybe you would, but a flour tortilla and plain beef isn’t much of a taco unless that’s your jam.

Okay, I’m hungry now, so let’s wrap it up…. mmmm Wraps.

The musical symbols each have their special names that mean exactly what they say:

Sharp pierces or lifts a tone.

Flat flattens or lowers a tone.

The accent emphasizes a tone.

A fill fills in a few beats with improvisation.

Grace notes add an extra bit of grace to separate tones.

Those are just some of the English terms.

There are so many more! Music is filled with dynamics and speeds that change the quality of a sound, making it music.


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Why Perfect Pitch Doesn’t Matter

Begin developing perfect pitch with your young child today.

You may have heard the terms “perfect pitch” or “absolute pitch.” Basically, a person with perfect pitch can identify the name of a tone. This is similar to how you can identify that a color is blue or red or yellow.

Having perfect pitch goes a bit deeper than that. It is similar to the ability or discriminating between vermilion and scarlet or sea-foam and turquoise.

This is important mostly when a musician is looking at a piece of music and wants to be able to sing that melody. One can sing it in one’s mind while reading the music but without the aid of an instrument.

When does one begin learning perfect pitch?

Absolute pitch can be learned at an early age with an instrument that is tuned to our Western pitches. Reviewing the tones with your child early and often will allow your child to develop perfect pitch. You can even do it if you are not musically inclined.

Again, it is a useful skill to have. Albeit, if your child does not eventually learn to read music, there is little value in it, like being able to identify spices by taste but not being able to read a recipe.

Personally, I am in the category of relative pitch. I cannot identify a tone by its absolute name. For example, I’ll tell you that the color is blue-green, but I can’t tell you that it is teal or aquamarine. However, I can use my relative pitch to stay within a palette (teal, persimmon, and peach as opposed to aqua, sand, and silver. I like colors. 😉)

Emily Henderson Home Design using teal, persimmon, and peach
Chesneys fireplace surrounded by aqua, sand, and hints of emerald

I use my relative pitch to stay within the palette when reading music – or the key signature of the scales. After I know the initial tone, I can read the music and sing. If the notes are going up, down, or repeating, I follow that with my pitch.

If you practice training your child’s ear, make sure that your instrument is tuned. Use free videos with perfect pitch training on YouTube. Go a little at a time, a few minutes per session, several times a week. Set a goal to eventually have your child learn to read music to use his or her skills to the fullest.

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How To Give Your Child Talent

We all want our children to have talent, to that have extra set of skills and abilities that will help them succeed in music. How can we give them that which keeps people awestruck, that makes them declare, “You’re so talented”?

There are only three things that a child needs to develop this talent. These things are 100% under your control:


  • Time in the day to practice.
  • Space in the home to practice.
  • Materials on which to practice, including a proper instrument and learning guides.

If you want to learn in detail how you can support your child in developing his or her talent, sign up to get your free Parent’s Checklist PDF. It is a wonderful guide to help you give your child that extra set of skills to succeed in music.

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Three Things to Look For When Learning Piano

1. Many children begin learning to play the piano in a Middle C position. Some children like to be able to squeeze their two thumbs onto the one key, but it’s not a good habit because their thumbs will grow.

In time, the thumbs will not fit, and the habit will produce three keys’ being smashed together (one on the left, Middle C, and one on the right). The best thing to do is to hover the non-playing thumb over the playing one.


2. Play with curled fingers. Just as important as posture, striking the key with a curled finger allows the finger to be used properly, the way it was designed. Fingers are meant to turn inward, to grasp, and to squeeze.

Using the finger in that manner will keep the joints healthy and strong. The fingertip, just before the nail meets the skin, is a good place to strike. If the nails are too long, then there will be a clackity clack sound.


3. Keep the wrists off of the surface that lies between the pianist and the keys. Many children like to rest their wrists on this surface, but that invites injury. The tendons on the back of the hand are not designed to make the motions that that posture requires.

It is best to keep the wrists straight and off of that surface. I like to call it Spiders & Lava because it’s best to leave those alone.

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Conserving Energy While Playing Piano

You might think that playing piano isn’t demanding on the energy levels, being that most pianists sit and push buttons. On the contrary, there is so much stuff going on in between the ears that learning a new piano piece increases breathing and heart rate.

To conserve some of that energy, it’s necessary to relax the shoulders and to keep good posture. This allows the circulation to be more efficient.

Now we go to small muscle groups like the hands and fingers. Make sure that the fingers are slightly curved but not on purpose. They hands should be relaxed. Think about how your hands are when you’re ready for sleep: the fingers are curled a bit. The hand is not stiff but loose and flexible.

When the key is struck, the finger should be curled in. Again, not stiffly but loosely. Think of the natural motion of the hand: to grasp, the fingers curl inward with the palm muscles doing the work. In the same manner, the gripping muscles should be working to strike the keys.

Thinking about these things might feel draining, especially to a new student, but nurturing good habits is what will keep injuries at bay. Moving ligaments and tendons in ways that they are not designed is what causes strain.

Your child will enjoy decades of healthy playing with the proper techniques of conserving energy.

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Learning the Whole Range of the Piano

The first time that I tied ballet slippers to my four year old feet, I knew that I wanted to dance for the rest of my life.

That is – until I saw the vastness of the ballroom: the clean, shiny, wooden strips of floor running into eternity and onto the mirrors that were 100 stories high!

Yeah, no thanks. I’ll hide in the dressing room.

Eventually, I got comfortable flexing and pointing my feet on the open floor in center stage and learning to revelé downstage.

Yong ballerinas warm up their ankles, center stage.

A piano, even a small keyboard, might feel like that vast stage to a young music student. There are just so many keys; two colors. They each make a particular sound, but what’s the pattern? Why do these sound like little birds and these like thunder?

I explain the keyboard to the child then teach a few exercises to encourage playing in all octaves. After a few minutes, most children can play little tunes on their own!

Children as young as 4 can begin learning their way around a full size piano. Sign up for my online course when you feel that your child is ready to learn beautiful piano music!

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8 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Progress

As parents, we want to give our children a let up when they feel that an activity becomes too challenging.

Here are 8 Ways to Help Your Children Succeed in Music:

  1. Make time for practice. Don’t wait for time to pop up. Put it in the schedule.
  2. Call your teacher. She knows how your child learns and will give appropriate tips for daily practice.
  3. Listen to studio recordings by professionals. Don’t try to imitate, but try to be inspired.
  4. Play pieces learned earlier. Reviewing old pieces is a great warm-up!
  5. Build on natural interests. Make up lyrics to a new tune that are about airplanes if your child likes airplanes.
  6. Be encouraging. Doing something that is hard becomes easier, which, in itself, is motivating.
  7. Master a little bit at a time. Better to learn by small chunks than try to play the whole piece in one go.
  8. Focus on positives. If a particular passage is simply too difficult to master, skip over it and learn the other parts. Many teachers will be happy with the progress and will gladly help your child learn that difficult part.

Incorporating just one or two of these methods will make a difference, so try it!

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Making Better Practice

Does practice really make perfect? It certainly makes progress when executed properly, so the saying ought to be, “Proper practice makes progress,” I think.

Summertime is typically a season in which we start our new practice goals with energy but quickly realize that a lax routine allows for practice to go by the wayside. One way that you can combat this mindset is by keeping a practice log. You can find one here.

I’ve shared one tip on how to clearly see what you’ve been practicing without littering your log with scribble scrabble. You may find that here. 


Tip #2 – DOT THE MINUTES

If you aim to practice everyday, which would be A-M-A-Z-I-N-G, your log will fill up and look cluttered. The purpose of a log is to look back and analyze progress, but how can one analyze with all that writing?

Think about how often you practice and how long your regular practice sessions are. Draw a dot to mark particular increments of time. A dot may represent 10 minutes or 15 minutes.

For example,
If you had a busy day yet managed to play a scale or two in the morning, sight read a little bit after lunch, and go over a mastered piece before bedtime, you might just write one dot to symbolize that you practiced 15 minutes that day, and give yourself an ice cream because a day like that takes discipline!

If you find that your regular practice time has increased to a point where all you see are dots, which is a very good thing, consider changing the pen color or drawing a circle around the dot to represent 30 minutes. Be creative and consistent.

Stay tuned for next week’s last practice log tip!

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Maintaining Skills During the Summer

With the school year coming to an end, many families will go without the routine that school offers. Music students often lose their skills during this time because summer usually allows for a relaxed schedule, but I would not want that to happen to my students!

One thing that you can do to maintain your child’s skills is to keep a practice log. This helps because you can:

  • Keep an eye on practice time.
  • Clearly see if there are a few days without practice.
  • Maintain focus on musical goals.

To use your log more effectively, I’ll share a few tips during the next few weeks.

Download your FREE practice log PDF here.


On with the show!

Tip #1  – MAKE A LEGEND

Just like making a legend of a key for a map, make a legend for the different things that you will be practicing.

Draw a box to make a chart on one of the blank sections of the practice log. If you like to work on scales, drills, and sight reading, the first column of the chart might have the simple drawing while the second has the label.

For example:
a zigzag to represent Scales
a round swirl to symbolize Drills
parallel lines to mean Sight Reading

This will keep your log from being too cluttered when it starts to fill up. You will also save time when writing down what you have practiced. It might also save you from quickly scribbling your work and then coming back later to not being able to read it.

See you next time, and have happy practices!

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